15 November 2013

LADIES, IS IT RUDE TO RESTYLE YOUR PARTNER?

Liz Hurley and Shane Warne

What Liz Hurley did to Shane Warne made him look like 'a complete tit'. Photograph: Richard Young/Rex




"One thing I've noticed in life is that a remarkable number of men, sometimes intelligent, accomplished men, can be extraordinarily thick about spotting women who manipulate them.

One area where this keeps happening is appearance, with some men being coerced into making bizarre decisions all in the name of "self-improvement". 
Shane Warne is a case in point. A cricketing uber-bloke, Shane was spirited away into the dark castle of Liz Hurley, to emerge resembling a Ken doll dipped in golden syrup. La Hurley beamed, while the world recoiled at Warne's newly brightened teeth, highlighted hair, Ronseal-hued skin tone, and hints of (thankfully undisclosed) "man-scaping".

Away from celebrityland, it seems that ordinary women also like to "make over" their men, preferring to upgrade their appearance, groom them, and transform them into Mr Right, rather than compete in the psychosexual scrum for men who are already deemed Mr Right. Occasionally there are studies about these dogged female-on-male makeovers.

Men also do this to women – explaining the phenomenon of relationships put under immense strain when one of the couple loses weight, or makes some other bid to climb out of the saboteur's hole.

Unless there are health or hygiene issues, surely no one should feel they have any right whatsoever to comment upon, criticise, mock or alter another person's appearance. It is at best rude, at worst, an exercise in control freakery. Ladies, truly we are better than this. Gentleman, brace yourself for the revelation that, whatever you've been told, neither "Ken doll" nor "weirdy beardy" are particularly good looks."




Source: The Guardian


Hii inawapa shida sana wanawake wakiafrika zaidi, haswaa wakisha kuwa na watoto na miili kubadilika, mara nyingi hurushiwa maneno ya kuwashushia self confidence. Sad zaidi ni comments kuhusu maumbile ya mtu, kwani ni nani alishawahi kuwa na uwezo wa kumuumba binadamu mwenzake?


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